Therapeutic Thinking: Our Approach to Positive Behaviour

Therapeutic Thinking:

Our approach to supporting children's emotional literacy and positive behaviour

At EPIS we are a committed to a ‘Therapeutic Thinking’ approach to behaviour, which complements our ethos to ‘be the best that we can be’. Our emphasis is on teaching and promoting valued behaviours that enable all children to achieve their potential and develop academically, socially and emotionally, thereby approaching the children’s development with a holistic mind-set. We have high expectations of all our children, both in relation to their education, and for their behaviour.

Therapeutic Thinking starts with building caring and empathetic relationships, where staff know the children well and treat them as individuals. It also involves the creation of a positive classroom by providing a calm and safe learning environment, in order that children feel more secure and are better able to regulate their emotions. This, in turn, supports children to be ready for learning.

Staff promote valued behaviours through the development of positive relationships with the children, building self-esteem through recognition and praise, providing positive learning experiences, and developing emotional literacy to support self-regulation.

What are valued behaviours?

Valued behaviour is defined as behaviour which is positive, helpful and values social acceptance. It benefits other people or society as a whole. At East Preston Infant School we apply a consistent approach which supports all children to have behaviours for learning and valued behaviours that benefit the school and wider community.

Children need to be taught to behave in a way which is valued, and we recognise that this can be challenging for some. Where this is the case we personalise their learning about valued behaviours and our responses to their unsocial or detrimental behaviours, whilst they develop the strategies and tools needed for them to be able to regulate and respond appropriately.

A ‘Therapeutic Thinking’ approach is not about treating everybody the same, it’s about giving equity to achieve equality.

Equality is about treating everybody the same regardless. Equity is about giving everyone what they need to be successful.

We aim to provide equality by providing the same valued experiences for all children and equity by adapting support and resourcing to remove any barriers.

Click on the links below to find out more about our approach

Bullying - A Definition

In recent years the term bullying has frequently featured in the media and, as a result, unkind behaviour is often mistakenly labelled as bullying. Incidents of bullying are extremely rare in young children and the minor conflicts that arise between them are seldom premeditated.

Bullying is a wilful, conscious desire to persistently and systematically hurt, threaten or frighten someone else. Rough play or occasional fights can be mistaken for bullying and so it is important for everyone to understand what is meant by the term.

We take all concerns about poor behaviour very seriously and investigate them thoroughly. For many years the school has achieved the BIG Award in recognition of its work on promoting anti-bullying. Below is a definition of bullying taken from our Anti-Bullying Policy (the full Policy can be viewed below):

Bullying can be defined as repeatedly:

hurting others on purpose
making others do things they do not want to do
hurting the feelings of others

Bullying can be:

Physical – hitting, kicking, taking belongings
Verbal – name calling, insulting, making offensive or racist remarks
Indirect – spreading nasty stories about someone, exclusion from social group

Bullying is not tolerated. If a report of bullying should occur, or if a parent, or child, expressed concerns to the headteacher or another member of staff, the following procedures would be applied:

1. All reports or concerns would be taken seriously and investigated thoroughly.

2. The school would establish a monitoring programme to observe and assess the situation and all relevant staff would be informed.

3. If detrimental behaviour, or bullying was observed, the agreed Behaviour Management procedures would be applied immediately. Parents would be consulted and informed of the action taken.

4. In very extreme cases, if an incident of bullying could not be resolved by applying the Behaviour Management procedures, this would then be referred to the school governors and the West Sussex guidelines, for exclusion of the child to be considered.

The NSPCC offer advice to parents on bullying and cyberbullying. Click on the link to be redirected to their website...https://www.nspcc.org.uk/what-is-child-abuse/types-of-abuse/bullying-and-cyberbullying/